Thursday, June 4, 2009

He's all I got...hmmmm...

My sister found pictures of men's private parts on her hubby's cell phone. This isn't funny but I can't help but to laugh in fear. My sis and I don't really get along, but do I think she deserves this? NO! No women does. Being the investigator she is, she started looking through all of his paperwork and his computer. From there she found he belonged to a few male sites that engaged in inappropriate behavior with the same sex. She then started listening to voice messages from his phone, which she didn't do before. She heard messages from men saying, "Last night was wonderful. I can't wait to see you again." And, "Meet me at the taco bell by your house. See if you can get away from the wife and all those kids." My sister has five children with this man, not including one he had with another woman while they were split up for two months. With all the information she gathered she went to him to confront him. Of course he denied it and said all the guys who called were just his boys and she took the messages in the wrong contexts. She taped the messages and I heard them and it didn't sound nothing like the hommie saying, "Hey man, last night was cool. We gotta do this again." No it was more like, "Thank you baby, I miss you already" kind of talk. He made my sister feel secure for a day or so until she got a call from one of "his boys". He went off saying he is going to leave her for him and her man supports him and lets him live in his dead fathers house for free. Now I'm sitting there with my mouth open and in shock. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. I asked what was she going to do and she said, "What can I do? I have six kids to take care of and no job. He's all I got." I took a deep breath and left. What could I say? I couldn't judge her situation because I can't even imagine how she feels. I can't say, "LEAVE HIM NOW GIRL!" because unless I was willing and ready to take in her and her children it wasn't going to happen. Plus, I offered and she said no. We would kill each other in the same house. In all honesty I believe she likes the pity parties. Not my kind of party.

Are we in a time where this is ok? Not only are men cheating, but cheating with men? And its not just men either, its women as well. What is wrong with society and the world? Are we truly living if our morals and everything good around us is crumbling? My sister's now happy house hold is corrupted by sin. Does anyone still believe in G-d? I'm sorry but I am too unwilling to conform to a world where I have to accept my husband having two separate lives or having a husband who will accept me having two separate lives. Call me old fashioned but I would like to live a traditional life under G-d. This whole DL thing has got me shaken. I don't want to love someone and have to feel like I got to check up on what he is doing every day. I want to be able to know he will not be weak and tempted by sinful temptations. And don't say find a G-d fearing man because those are the main ones on their knees. And believe me they are not down there praying.

What in the hell?

There is no moral to this story. That's the problem...NO MORALS!